Sunday, April 28, 2024

Love and Fear

 

Church of the Redeemer                         The Rev. Nancy E. Gossling

 

            In today’s 1st letter of John, the author writes two things that caught my attention:

  1. “Perfect love casts out fear, and
  2. “Those who say, “I love God,” and hate their brothers or sisters are liars.”

So let’s first talk about fear. I totally get it. I am afraid of many and various things, beginning with snakes. I am afraid of losing people I love. I am afraid of not fulfilling my potential, of failing others, and of not loving myself or others the way that God loves me. I am not afraid of dying but I am afraid of having pain that makes me want to die.

I do not love perfectly. I have a lifetime of evidence to attest to that confession. Maybe if I did, I wouldn’t be so fearful. Because, you and I know, that when we are fearful we are not acting in loving ways. So I remember a classic book that was recommended to me several decades ago, entitled Hinds Feet in High Places. It is based upon the Old Testament book of Habakkuk. In it, the primary focus is on the journey of someone who is called “Little Miss Much Afraid.”

At that time in my life, my spiritual director called me “Little Miss Much Afraid.” That was me. And so as I journeyed together with the leading star in this book, I realized that the only way to move forward in my life was to take leaps of faith. I found courage to change, and take appropriate risks, even when, and especially when, I didn’t know the outcome. I had to trust God and those who loved me. One day at a time, one step at a time.

Fear is rampant these days. We are afraid of our national security in the face of escalating international conflicts. We know that boundaries are  being crossed over our national, social, and personal borders. We argue about our first amendment rights, and what is and is not acceptable in our public and private squares. We are afraid for our futures.

Protests and public discourses have dropped to new lows; and serious violations in crime and personal safety have caused many to withdraw in fear. I often wonder who wants to step forward in faith when our culture dismisses the importance of religion. Or how we do not honor the many and various ways in which people connect with God.

Which brings me to my second  point. How is it then that we can say, or the author of 1st John can say, that “those who say, ‘I love God,’ and hate their brothers or sisters are liars.” To be honest, I cannot, for the life of me, understand how anyone can hate any group of people, most especially the Jewish people at this time, or the people of Gaza, or the people of any faith or country and still say that they love God. We can disagree passionately about our politics and even religion. But hate? Amd hate that leads to violence and death?

I am aware of how the opposite of love is not hate, but rather indifference. Indeed hate is love that has despaired so greatly that it has flipped from one extreme to another. And so to be indifferent is to say that you don’t care about all that God has created, every piece and parcel of creation, every single human and living creature. And while I may not like snakes, and even some people, I can say that by the grace of God, I can love everything and everyone because God loves us first, and God loves everyone and everything. God is good, all the time; and sometimes we are not.

When I was a little girl, I loved drawing a picture of a tree growing alongside a stream of blue water. The sky was blue; the sun was bright. Apples were red and rosy. And this, for me, was the equivalent picture of the true vine. Implicit in this picture is God, who is the vine grower, and the Tree of Life, the Creator of all creation and all creatures. And yet, idyllic as the scene may appear, we all know that vines need pruning, fruits need nutrients, and some branches may even need to be cut off.

This morning we will have a baptism, and our reasons for baptism will vary. “Some are baptized as babies and do not remember it, but maybe will be grateful for it later. Some are baptized because they turned eight years old and decided that they were sick and tired of not getting to drink the grape juice at the Lord’s Supper. Some are baptized on the spur of the moment like the Ethiopian eunuch in today’s reading.

Some have never been baptized because they have never seen any reason why they should be. And Jesus was baptized because he believed that God was calling him to a different kind of life. When Jesus rose from the waters of the Jordan River, he heard a voice say: “You are my child. I love you. I’m delighted with you.”

People who are baptized are called to live a different kind of life. They tell the truth in a world that lies; they give in a world that takes; they love in a world that hates; they make peace in a world that fights; they serve in a world that wants to be served; and they pray in a world that waits to be entertained.” (Brett Younger, www.d365.org, January 9, 2016)

So today, we will baptize Grace Rebecca Wilford. And baptisms are all about love, God’s love and our love for God and others. Grace is fresh fruit, which is being added to the vine that we call the Tree of Life. Her pruning and growth will continue over the years as she, hopefully, stays connected to the true vine grower, that is to God.

Over my decades of motherhood and priesthood, I have increasingly become more and more convinced that it takes a whole community of family, friends, and faithful people to raise a child. It begins at birth, and never ends. Thanks to all of you who are part of her life and her journey today and will be in the days and years to come.

Today, we welcome Grace, as a full member of the Body of Christ, and an heir of God’s eternal kingdom. May she grow strong in her faith journey, and stay close to the vine, the true vine that is Christ. May the Spirit of God help her to bear fruit that will last.

 

Acts 8:26-40             1 John 4:7-21           John 15:1-8

 

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