Sunday, July 13, 2025

Foxhole Companions

Christ Episcopal Church, Needham, Massachusetts            The Rev. Nancy E. Gossling      
Colossians 1:1-14            Luke 10:25-37

          My husband Paul occasionally comments on people. He says, “That’s the type of person you want to have next to you in a foxhole if you find yourself in a battle.” This person is one who will hunker down with you, when you find yourself in a war, surrounded by the enemy, with bombs dropping, sirens wailing, bullets flying, and your life is on the line. Terrified, perhaps even critically wounded, you see no means of escape, and you long desperately for a miracle. You pray that someone would save you from the pain, terror, and what appears to be your imminent death.

          Perhaps wounded, trapped, or just unable to move because of your fear, you are amazed that the person next to you, perhaps your best buddy or a total stranger, maybe even an emergency responder, appears by your side. This person, for whatever reason, has chosen to stay with you, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, until death do you part or at least until the danger passes.

          It is no surprise to me that my husband Paul often uses such language to describe certain people; for when he has been “under fire” in school, at work, or at home (I confess that I can “fire away” with the best of them), he feels as if life is a war. You know what I mean - you envision a long and happy life in one place, one job, one relationship, and suddenly something changes. You send your child off to camp and she never returns. Life is no longer a bed of roses. Your “happy place or person” is gone.

 Perhaps we’ve grown accustomed to our safe little foxholes when the unexpected happens: a new diagnosis, a peaceful protest turns violent, an accident takes a life, a flood causes mortal injuries, and someone we love suddenly dies. We feel violated. We feel like victims. And we look for someone or something to blame.

The effects of our lifelong battles are not always obvious. Worries about money, health, and our family members can drain us just as quickly as any physical wound. Indeed, we don’t need to live in another country to know the reality of violence on our streets or in our homes. And so, we hunker down and isolate ourselves from our own communities. It’s safer, we say to ourselves, to just stay at home.

Jesus was a foxhole person. When the lawyer asked him what he must do to inherit eternal life, Jesus answered in true rabbinic fashion. He asked him a question. “What is written in our law? What do you read there?” Well-educated in his religious upbringing, the lawyer responded correctly with one big, beautiful answer. Obey the first two commandments. That is, love God with every part of your being: your heart, soul, strength, and mind. And while you’re at it, love your neighbor the same way you love yourself.

Sidestepping the obvious challenge about how we actually love God, our selves, and our neighbors the lawyer tested Jesus once again. Like a journalist at a white house press conference, he asked another question. Who is his neighbor? He wanted to know because he wanted to get it right. Or maybe he just wanted to test Jesus with a gotcha kind of question.  Which, to my mind, begs more questions. Who is my neighbor? Is it the person in the pew next to you? The homeless person on the street begging for food, money, or drugs? Is it the political extremist on your far right or far left? Is it anyone who isn’t just like you?

Jesus was asking the lawyer if he would be a good foxhole companion. He wanted to know if he would run away to protect his own life, or would he hunker down, valiantly fighting the enemy of life and love for the sake of others? For the love of God and for the love of country, would he fight for what is right, good, and true? Would she help a stranger while risking her own personal safety, showing up to volunteer in the flood waters of Texas?

That lawyer’s one simple question begs more questions. Will we help those who have been wounded, beaten, and robbed of their human dignity, for their right to live and love as they do? Will we engage in respectful dialogue, honoring the choices of others even if they are different from our own. Will we be brave angels and foxhole companions? Or like the priest and the Levite, will we just walk on by?

As told in an internet joke, a Sunday School teacher was telling the story of the Good Samaritan to her class of 4- and 5-year-olds. She was making it as vivid as possible to keep the children interested in her tale. At one point, she asked the class, "If you saw a person lying on the roadside all wounded and bleeding, what would you do?" A thoughtful little girl broke the hushed silence and said "I think I'd throw up."

Honestly, I would probably avert my gaze, maybe even feign interest in another direction. I might possibly break into a run or do an about face. Maybe I would retreat to a safer place. No good Samaritan here confesses this priest on this Sunday morning in Needham. I might just walk on by.

Perhaps you are aware of the animosity between the Jews and the Samaritans during this time in history. In fact, oftentimes, they would eschew each other’s territories for the sake of their personal safety. Imagine today how a Jewish person might feel living in Iran or Gaza? Or conversely, a Palestinian living in Israel? How might our young people feel about walking on a college campus where anti-semitic words and actions are prevalent? Where protests or simple large gatherings of people can turn dangerous?

The point of Jesus’ parable about the Good Samaritan is pointing not only to the reality of our human choices, when faced with the people we hate or fear, but Jesus also wanted to redirect our vision to God. If we are to love God, our neighbors, and ourselves, indeed even our enemies, then we will not only fight for justice, but we will also show mercy. There is a wideness to God’s mercy that is often beyond our human reach when we are faced with war and hate, when we are faced with political vitriol and violence.

In Ladder to the Light, Steven Charleston writes about a vision he once had:

I saw an older man standing alone by the side of the road. He kept looking down that road as if he was expecting a bus, but no bus stopped there. When I mentioned that to him, he said that he was not waiting for a bus. He was waiting for a parade. He had heard that if you wait long enough, the parade would come back down your street. He had missed it before, and he did not want to miss it again. I looked at him. He was different from me. Different color. Different religion. He looked a little grubby and he had an accent, but I decided it didn’t matter. He was a person. I was a person. He needed a parade. I needed a parade. He had hope. I had hope. So, I waited beside him, looking down the street in the same direction; and the minute I did, we both heard music in the distance.” (Xian Century, July 2025, p24)

As they say in the trenches, there are no atheists in the foxholes. As Christians we can claim that Jesus is in the foxhole with us. We can show justice and mercy by standing by someone’s side, literally or figuratively, in our words and in our actions, in our thoughts and in our prayers. We can remind someone that they are not alone.

In truth, we are never alone; for Jesus promised that He would send His Holy Spirit to accompany us. Held securely in the palm of God’s hand, we can trust that this Spirit will provide for us and protect us. Whether we’re in the thick of battle or experiencing a temporary cease-fire, we believe that the war is over and that our victory has been won.

For Jesus stretched out his own arms of love on the hard wood of the cross so that everyone might come within the reach of his saving embrace. As our own good Samaritan and a faithful Jew, Jesus will carry us to the inn, where God has many rooms. He has paid the price of our salvation with his own sacrificial love. We have inherited eternal life through Him.

Until then, as St. Paul wrote in his letter to the Colossians, “May you be made strong with all the strength that comes from his glorious power, and may you be prepared to endure everything with patience, while joyfully giving thanks to the Father, who has enabled you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the light. God has rescued us from the power of darkness and transferred us into the kingdom of his beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.”

 Through Jesus we can also fight for justice, show mercy, and walk humbly with our God. We too can be foxhole companions. Amen.